Internet porn and the real life: Just like in the movies... - by Kolya
PigLick on 9/2/2011 at 14:56
yeh, pretty much thats what sayin
gunsmoke on 9/2/2011 at 20:07
Quote Posted by Koki
So what you're basically saying is, straight 1 on 1 porn is just a gateway to hardcore BDSM bestiality?
It most certainly can.
the_grip on 9/2/2011 at 21:21
so what then leads to 1 on 1 porn... hmm...
Things are not that simple. There are plenty of people out there who watch porn and who have completely healthy relationships. There are people who do and don't watch porn and have horrible relationships. And there is a huge amount in between.
Just to restate my overall point here - porn is not the cause of all these things. Porn is just a vehicle that people might use to escape their real lives. If someone has a healthy relationship, then I'm not sure porn derails that by default.
Queue on 9/2/2011 at 22:31
Plus, there's plenty of couple that enjoy viewing porn together. My wife and I are not one of those couples, but....
My first encounter with porn was at the age of 13. Since then, I've been exposed to all manners of hardcore deviance--some of which was so repugnant that even I had a hard time swallowing (though the girl didn't....boo). And, strangely enough, as I get older, I find hardcore porn actually less and less appealing. For one thing, they're so utterly fake, ridiculous, and detached from reality that it's boring. Seriously, if you've already seen one Japanese girl crying while she gets nine creampies...well...you've seen 'em all.
I actually find the stupid softcore porns much more interesting and exciting--especially when you get glimpses of all the goodies. They're more about tantalization and titillation than hardcore. With hardcore, you know that in about five seconds the girl is going to be choking on unclipped cock. While with softcore, even though you know what's coming when the scene consists of two girls lying around the swimming pool, you didn't expect to see them touching each other through their bikinis, AND pulling the fabric aside so you can get a brief, yet good, view. It's the little things like that that count. Plus, with softcore, 9 times out of 10 the scene's are much more sensuous--instead of just some girl screaming her bloody head off while the guy makes stupid faces.
Koki on 10/2/2011 at 10:18
Quote Posted by gunsmoke
It most certainly can.
Yeah, but not unless you were a sick fuck(no offense to any sick fucks out there) in the first place.
Ulukai on 10/2/2011 at 17:32
Ho hum, Internets eh? I remember when the best / only way to find porn was to go and look for a ripped up copy of Razzle in a hawthorn hedge down a quiet lane. Highlight of my paper-round, that was.
I could never imagine why anyone would wantonly abandon porn in the countryside, but I was glad they did.
Renzatic on 10/2/2011 at 17:52
My greatest porn experience was rooting through the old storage house back in the day, and finding a cardboard box full of old Playboys and Penthouses squirreled away in a dark corner of a neglected closet. For 13 year old me, it was better than discovering a treasure trove of priceless pirate doubloons.
Kids these days don't know how easy they got it. They're only a google away from all the naked boobs they can handle, whereas I had to accept the far too rare hand-me-downs, or sneak out of the house in the middle of the night to hit up the Playboys at the local corner mart.
Life is unbearably tragic at times.
Sulphur on 10/2/2011 at 22:40
I guess most people didn't have a dad like mine. You'd find these softcore magazines almost in plain sight all over the house. There was always a stack of them on top of the washing machine. Every time I had to coax the dog out from under mum and dad's bed to give him a bath, he'd invariably be chewing on a luscious full-colour pin up from the magazines stashed under the bed. The old suitcases and carry bags we never used and stored in the loft were completely stuffed with them. Our medicine cabinet had an old book with a yellow cover titled, 'Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex*', and me being a rather curious 11-year old, I had some interesting reading and subsequently eye-opening 'Did You Know This!?' chats with friends at school.
Thanks, dad. He was always completely oblivious to how fast we grew up.
But that's nothing like how fast kids grow up nowadays. These days, the six-year olds on the street tell people to fuck off and liberally declare that everything is 'balls!'. Can they fathom the meaning of what they're saying? Maybe, maybe not. To have lost innocence without even realising what it was at first, though, that scares the fuck out of me.
gunsmoke on 11/2/2011 at 04:08
Quote Posted by Koki
Yeah, but not unless you were a sick fuck(no offense to any sick fucks out there) in the first place.
Hence the word CAN. It is really becoming a problem, though. Check the stats on couples/individuals in counseling for porn nowadays and compare it to 15-20 years ago.
Queue on 11/2/2011 at 14:37
Quote Posted by Sulphur
But that's nothing like how fast kids grow up nowadays. These days, the six-year olds on the street tell people to fuck off and liberally declare that everything is 'balls!'. Can they fathom the meaning of what they're saying? Maybe, maybe not.
A lot of that is just bad parenting. The kids hear mom or dad telling someone to fuck off and calling everything balls, and that thing sorta sticks as acceptable. The maturity level of parents around their own kids is deplorable, and does nothing but raise even more uncouth little bastards. Certainly I'm not a mature person, but I am when it comes to raising my kids and guiding them toward making sensible decisions in life--and how to interact with people.
As far as kids coming across porn on the internet, the simple solution would be to not let them on the internet. But my God, we can't do that since little Sally
needs to check here Facebook--how else will she interact with her friends without some sort of interface? And hell, why not give her a webcam too. Every twelve-year-old needs a webcam, right? She would would never think of "putting on a little show" for anybody, since she would have
never seen something like that on the internet herself.
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To have lost innocence without even realizing what it was at first, though, that scares the fuck out of me.
Me too. By eighth-grade, most of the girls in my daughters class had already had sex (with the boys demanding sex in order to be their girlfriend) and blow jobs had become more normal than stealing a kiss. I understand experimentation at that age, but to demand that they put out - and to put out just so one can be attached, and some how validated - is some seriously fucked up behavior. But, it doesn't help when you have a parent who's willing to take her young daughter off to see the boyfriend for over-night stays because, well, the boyfriend is demanding sex and the girl is bitching up a storm because she needs to run off and satisfy said boyfriend. True story, folks--this was the behavior of a woman working for my wife whose fifteen-year-old daughter told her that her boyfriend was horny and threatening to break-up if she didn't do something about it. So, of course the dumb bitch loaded the little slut up in the car and fed her to the lion, so to speak.
