Deliberately conceiving to abort, no. Knowingly risking conception and thus being responsible for it, yes. If the pregnancy wasn't unwanted enough to forgo sex, it's hard to expect anyone uninvolved to forgo their lives because of it.

Maybe the reason men don't get to choose is because it's, you know, not their body! It's almost like we discussed this at some point!

Dude, seriously, sort out your shit. In addition to your favourite hobby of trying to control women's bodies by preventing abortion, you anti-choice fuckers are constantly fighting tooth and nail to destroy sex education programmes, interfere with women's access to contraception and sterilisation, destroy programmes that oppose rape and domestic violence, and further undermine survivors' already minimal chances of getting rapists and abusers convicted, to name but a few.

Anti-choicers are anti-woman. I mean, you're basically arguing right here that men engaging in predatory behaviour is not a serious issue, in a society where at least 17% of women are raped in their lifetime and where men commit the overwhelming majority (~99%) of rapes. In fact, you've packed enough ignorance into what's basically a two sentence post that I had to use a year's supply of bullet points to illustrate it:

* High school sex education is in a shocking state in much of the US, and may focus on abstinence rather than convey accurate information
* Some people will indeed have "missed that day at school" if their parents are able to stop them from attending
* Contraception is not readily available in all areas or to all people, and often costs money that some people don't have
* Having contraceptives is not always safe if they canot be hidden from controlling partners and/or parents
* All contraceptive methods have failure rates, these typically vary by usage and that information may not be readily available or presented in a clear manner
* Some men sabotage contraception and this is not always obvious or detectable
* Men can and sometimes do lie about the chance of pregnancy (one look at the Google autocompletes for "you can't get pregnant" should illustrate a range of the myths used)
* Saying "no" to an insistent or aggressive person who is heavier, taller, stronger, alone with you, or who has more social power, economic power, or privilige than you is not always easy, safe, or effective. To most women, men tend to be several of these things
* Women in abusive relationships in particular often don't have a real option to say "no" to sex or to have that respected
* Women in abusive relationships don't have necessarily have safe, private access to the internet or to libraries
* As a group, men are complete shitbags towards women, and they have the power to back up that shitbaggery. This is indisputable, and the notion that we shouldn't use that as a starting point for analysis is, at best, absurd
* This probably isn't even all of the things, but there's only so much I'm willing to type out for you, so

I'll go over the most important one: regardless of context, consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy, and furthermore use or attempted use of contraception, successful or not, is an indication that there is no consent to pregnancy

If a man comes into a paternity test and says "Well, I consented to the sex but not having a baby.", they will be laughed out of court. Consent to take part in a behavior which knowingly risks a particular outcome is consent to that outcome.